Over the Shock and GALing 6

[Thinker]

@Sara,

I agree with you completely.

I think the confusion comes in two forms:

First, there is a lot of DB advice out there that says "Don't be so available, be busy, be mysterious, don't jump at every invitation, etc" People hear this and say "He/she invited me, should I go??"

Second is the confusion I was referring to - "How can he / she be Ding me AND inviting me out at the same time??" Until you keep the romantic relationship (or lack thereof) and your partnership as a couple separate and compartmentalized, the LBS has a lot of trouble here.