I think your camping trip will go well, just relax, smile and 'be you' let the beauty of nature do the rest. You have a perfect back drop for being together.
It was good to hear how you phrased that my MLC'er is better than most because I felt after reading some posts just awful at how the complete disconnect both mentally, verbally and physically took place all at the same time and so abruptly. However, at times I wished H would have just done that because he vacilates between being loving and cruel. Even today H called to make sure I was having a good time and if I needed him to do anything around the house. That was nice and you would expect it from someone who is acting as an appropriate spouse; however, it has the power to lull myself into a false sense of security and I just cannot do that anymore.
Well, anyway. As I said doesn't appear as though I will really know until I get back.
So I wish us both well and will be anxious to hear about your camping trip.
One day at a time, right?
Chel
M 42 H 41 M 16 yrs. Together 20 yrs. No kids, 1 cat Bomb 5/16/09 D papers unsigned in H's hands
