Thanks for checking in Mindblank. I can tell you are struggling with detaching. I wish I could offer some advice. For me it just happened. I flipped a switch in my head and was just able to proceed with my life assuming that she was most likely not going to be a part of it. The funny part is, the day before it happened I would have sworn I would never be able to detach. One little thing that did help me was to write a daily journal and really let loose. Something just for me.
