You claim you've "given up," and you don't care, yet you can't even push off her demand for a meeting by a day or two, or say "no" to her when she asks you to dog-sit for you unannounced?
Hmmmm...
Look, even if you completely give up on your marriage, you're STILL going to need to learn to set (and enforce) effective boundaries, as she will forever still be in your life in some capacity. Or, do you plan on going completely dark on her should you divorce, since you have no kids?
Puppy
i don't know what i want. if it's not going to work out, no i don't really want her in my life in any aspect. there are no kids. right now, maybe i'm just carelessly coasting. i'm drained and tired of this all, and just want it over with in some regard. she didn't demand anything really, she just said she's coming over tomorrow again. should i have told her no? idk the answer to that. i don't actually remember saying anything to her about it, just "sure" when she asked if she could leave the dog here. she said she thought it might be nice for me to have another companion here. i didn't say anything about it after she made the comment.
it's all whatever to me right now. i'm tired. tired of fighting for something that doesn't seem to mean anything to anyone else but me. i'm not doing anything one way or another with this whole sitch for awhile. i need to go take a nap.
