You claim you've "given up," and you don't care, yet you can't even push off her demand for a meeting by a day or two, or say "no" to her when you asks you to dog-sit for you unannounced?
Hmmmm...
Look, even if you completely give up on your marriage, you're STILL going to need to learn to set (and enforce) effective boundaries, as she will forever still be in your life in some capacity. Or, do you plan on going completely dark on her should you divorce, since you have no kids?
