a) shows that she does not set the agenda -- you do;
b) creates mystery
c) demonstrates that you have decisions to make as well.
d) gives her time to worry about losing you
So I take it you decided not to try this . . .
puppy, i did consider this. somethings happened to me this last 6 days. i don't think i really care anymore. i'm not going to be vindictive to her, but honestly yesterday was one of the biggest days i've ever had where i could care less if W called or contacted me. i don't know what to say about it. honestly, i'm fine if she doesn't ever come back. i don't think i want this new dog here for any longer then tomorrow tho. it's already had two accidents since it's been here and it's only been an hour it's acting squirrelly as hell too.
i don't know what to tell you what i'm thinking about right now. i'm not sure i even want to try anymore with her. i've thought about it the last couple days, and i don't know what i want. i think i've given up, which is pretty sad, but at this point, it's like what else do i have to lose by giving up? she's already gone and has stayed gone. really why am i fighting for someone who doens't know what the heck they want? i want a relationship where someone is fighting for me for a change. this isn't it.
it's acting squirrelly as hell too.