Been there did the "you are the one person in the world who is supposed to have my back and you are throwing knives in it while I am not looking" routine! With the tears and all yep! Pre DB.
Post DB, he turned to me once and said "how are you really doing"? It was out of the blue, I wasn't expecting it but his eyes were clear. I said "I get you need space right now, but I am...disappointed in the lack of respect you have shown me to get this" Thats all I said (major difference for me!) but it also got a change in 80% of the bad behavior overnight literally. He was just in that zone, for a short period of time. I am sure my original 5 hour rant that was my first answer would have had him out the door by now.
Just expect your next window when you do not expect it, if you know what I mean!
