I read the e-mail he must have sent over the afternoon that I mentioned on your thread. Seems instant family is going to be gone next weekend when ex has the kids. He told the boys she won't be there and figures he will see what the problem is(him, her or the whole thing). He was saying how they should forgive him. Oh and how disappointed he is in them for their attitudes.
This guy is dense and in a big fog bank apparently. I am proudly keeping my mouth shut.(You all know that is a 180 for me since I love to help! ) He said let the cards fall where they may, so I will.
Took the kids to Ice Age 3. Or should I say S16 took us since I just paid concessions but he got us in for free! Got to love that job. Stayed up late the night before watching a movie and so knocked off early. Sorry I forgot to e-mail last night. I will hopefully be more with it and remember.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
That is a great job! I just realized maybe S15 can get a job like that in a year or 2. Very cool. How was Ice Age? I'm having a much better day today. It had to have been a full moon or something yesterday! Karen
Actually there was some sort of eclipse on the 7th and there will be another in a couple weeks. Maybe that explains why last week was so different for me. Oh there I go getting into that stuff. Don't understand a lot of it but if the waves of the ocean are controlled by the moon then...
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Too cute. My D10 just called me tell me she liked the computer game I found on-line for her to try. It was only a trial so you get an hour. I asked her if there was any time left on it so I could see it. Oooppss, sorry Mommy, I played the whole time!!
Just got to love them. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I had a rough night last night. Found out flirt guy is at least dating again. He told me via e-mail. I was really upset when I read it though I know I had told myself nothing says when he starts dating again that he will pick me.
On the alternate universe, which I got him into by the way, they had a quick convo that basically sounded like thanks for the sex! Investigator girl that I am found out she is maybe 23 or 24 and goes to the local University there. So maybe she is a quick fling, who knows. when I reread his e-mail he didn't say girlfriend but girl friend, like she is/was a date. So strangly that makes me feel better. I think we all know I am not a fling sort of girl, so if that is what he wants right now, he wouldn't want to date me.
So feeling a tad better because of that. At least he is out there again or maybe not so great that he is out there again...
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Kat, its stings that he is maybe out there a little, but just wait and see what happens.
Originally Posted By: kat727
they had a quick convo that basically sounded like thanks for the sex! kat
Maybe they should start a line at Hallmark or Shoebox for this.
BTW your XH is just a dumba$$. He isn't going to figure out what the problem truly is and he actually had the gall to talk about his disappointment in "Their" attitudes? Seriously, this man is on crack. Sorry, but that really just got to me today.
ASSCLOWN!!!
Hang in there. Hang in there
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Thanks for the support Corey! Maybe he is in to the friends with benefits which I thought I might even be up for but I know deep down, it's not for me.
Ex is even being worse if that is possible. He messed up D10's flute lessons but I called him, he called the teacher and got it all worked out for now. Then he told me he was sending an e-mail regarding holidays. Ok the dumb @ss wants every stinking holiday for the rest of the year plus extra time plus d8's birthday!!! No where in the "agreement" does it say that. He just didn't speak up last year and now feel entitled to everything. AARRGGHH!!
I am trying to stay calm and take each issue as it comes but man if they had a vapor ray I wouldn't hesitate to use it on the alien man!!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
It is shown on all those goofy/sci-fi movies from the 50's and 60's which involved aliens!! LOL I wish I knew where to pick one up. We could do a trade...vapor gun for jewelry.
I'm hanging believe me.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
) He said let the cards fall where they may, so I will.