end game of divorce busting?

[JKL2009]

So what is the end game of divorce busting? One day our WAS says "I want this marriage to last/I want to reconcile/etc?" Or, on the other end of things, does the LBS one day wake up in a happy zen state content to not be in the previous marriage and happy to be done and over?

Of those on this board that have successfully DB'ed, when did you declare victory?

I know I am getting way ahead of myself, but I can't help but try and think down the road what "success" would actually look like.