How have you been? I know it's been a long time since I posted. I just readup on your sitch. So you know I will say don't even bother tell him. Remember my texts taht I was receiving. My take first off is taht what's the point of even dwellingon it. What really is the texting doing to you. Nothing? No benefit no hurt. And why even bother to inconveniece yourself with changing your #. Unless she does somethign with your # that is really damaging - words are nothing. They're electronic and just the delete button takes care of it. For myslef, I finally told H about the texts I got. But I did it in a great way. We were out on a date (will fill you in on my thread) and were talking casually and then I mentioned it to him. I even told him that I wasn't going to tell him b/c I don't want to give her the satisfaction of even getting negative attention. He was pissed off and I said see that's why I didn't want to say anything b/c I knew you would go to her. Funny thing is that shortly after she called him about something he was suppose to do for their son and he wasn't going to answer the phone but I told him to go ahead bu I ttalked not disturb), but anyway he did what I asked and told her that its not even bothering me and that I find it amusing actually and I was so glad to hear thim tell her that. Good!!! He even said her that doesn't she see that I don't even argue when she calls. It was so perfect. Hopefully she sill feel like texting/calling me is a waste of her time. So my advice, show your H that you don't even care. I think in general once we act like we don't really care then they get shocked.
