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Alex...

I responded to you on my thread...Thank you for coming over to my post smile


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Alex I'm right here with you. Just caught up on your sitch. I had a hard time finding you after your last thread locked.


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Alex,

I just wanted to mention how much I admire the way you are there for your kids. You're a good father, my friend, a good man.

-Carlos.


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Thanks Carlos, I appreciate your kind words...

Kind of reminds me of a thread @Thinker had about how many of us have difficulties in accepting compliments gracefully, as my immediate thought was that I feel somewhat of a failure as a father, knowing that I did have a role in the demise of our M and, as such, have contributed to OUR failure to them...

But, by recognizing that feeling (to your point on your thread), if I look at it the way you and @Coach have said and remove the emotion (the sadness of having let the kids down), I do know that I have become a better father over the course of my sitch and, given the Reality of where I am today, my goal will remain to do everything in my power to be there for them emotionally even if I am not always with them physically...


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How are you doing? What's lined up for this weekend?


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Hey, Thinker, I pinged you in the alt., I'll try again...


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Look me up in the alt.


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Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
Look me up in the alt.


Tried. Swing and a miss... Give me a hint...

N might be something like Nelson if you want to try it the other way around...


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If we are talking about the same thing (think we are), do a search on my username.


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Think I might have found you. Hang on.


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