Kind of reminds me of a thread @Thinker had about how many of us have difficulties in accepting compliments gracefully, as my immediate thought was that I feel somewhat of a failure as a father, knowing that I did have a role in the demise of our M and, as such, have contributed to OUR failure to them...
But, by recognizing that feeling (to your point on your thread), if I look at it the way you and @Coach have said and remove the emotion (the sadness of having let the kids down), I do know that I have become a better father over the course of my sitch and, given the Reality of where I am today, my goal will remain to do everything in my power to be there for them emotionally even if I am not always with them physically...
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