Best case scenario he admits he needs some help, worst case scenario he pushes D. I decided if he pushes D I will retain my own attorney no matter the consequences. I will also at that point tell him no more physical contact.
Good way of looking at this, Chel. Your H is sure putting you through an emotional rollercoaster, but I feel that you are starting to detach. When all is said and done, your H certainly has not been the worse MLC'er, actually, one of the better ones, but the emotions involved are no less painful. Sometimes, when they go completely crazy it makes it easier to detach and let go. But, when they're like your H, it's difficult.
Perhaps it was a good idea to go to Denver (only you know what's good for you and it seems this is) --- maybe give your H a chance to see what life is without you, and give you an emotional battery recharge, familywise.
My H and I are going camping today until Saturday morning. It's going to be interesting to see what camping is like without our children.
Enjoy your break!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
