Well, my face is swollen and hurts a bit, but the other feelings have diminished. There is that undercurrent, though...
The IC wrote back:
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I did not read the attachments as the intro was overall coverage to where you are at this time. We need to address our goals for joint sessions at the beginning of our meeting. We need to adhere to no more than a 50 minute session and we should attempt to create an atmosphere that will invite two adults to want to continue meeting for the benefit of effectively parenting two beautiful children, therefore, our first meeting may not provide you with the time to address the past. Let us be sure to create mutual goals so that we can attempt to meet both your needs over the next few sessions.
So, I go in with no plan and no expectations, except to answer questions thoughtfully and listen. I honestly have no clue what I am doing. I guess the note I sent her did seem to focus too much on the past.