LOL you were great until you apologized. Then he knew he still had you. HE does need to own his sh**! Daycare is part of it. This isn't an issue between you and he...its his alone. Its his responsibility. You have every right to get angry and push.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!