Hey Fallgirl,

What an interesting week!!! Gotta be very pleased about the rumpy bumpy, I reckon that counts as a very good conection, especially if there was a deep and meaniful chat attached which you seemed to have gained from. You GO girl!! There is quite a lot to be said to being able to just listen (oscar passed!). Even if one does not agree, being able to open up deeper communication has go to be a great thing.

Not sure about the money issues, we have those too. It does seem (from someone who used to to hassle him about obvious big money spends) that if I let them through to the keeper as if they were a loaf of bread he tries twice as much and gives me so much more info next time around.

But, overall, gotta be a positive I reckon. And you have to expect he is going to pull back after such an encounter. A detached, I let you get watch you wanted THIS TIME attitude such that you are showing is a great way to treat it.

You keep setting goals that produce those results and you will be all sorted in a couple of months!!!!