My W doesn't even ask if I care, she just goes ahead and tells me she is doing it, assuming I will stay home with the kids. I have told her on several occasions that I was busy on a night she wanted to go out, and she had to get a sitter (one that I knew, of course). The really crappy thing is the next day, she'll post lots of pictures of herself and her friends having a great time on Facebook the next day. Then I get calls wondering where I am in the pictures. I used to like FB, now I don't visit it at all.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.