My H said he wants a D, I'm devastated!

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Michelle
every situation has some similarities and differences
MY xh was very mixed in the beginning..he still lives at home 4 months after bomb although he was secretly sleeping with OW
MY x thought he was honest about his choice since he Told me he wanted out even though we were still M and living together
my X had swings during these 2 years especially the first year of calling, visiting frequently and not picking up calls and withdrawing
only TIME will really tell if your H is going to seek help
you planted the seeds thats really all you can do
and you handled him well
your choice to retain attorney is an excellent choice
and stopping physical contact is also also a wise choice at this time to help you detatch
if you can start your own therapy that will help
good luck
you re doing great
peace