One of Gardener's posts last evening got me thinking. He said he had not been working on detaching from his W, but it, nonetheless, seemed to be happening anyway.
That hit home with me. This week, I have actually been working on being upbeat and light hearted areound my W. To my surprise, I find myself becoming more and more detached from my W. It's not something I did per se. It just seems to be happening. I have not reached a point of giving up on the M (and I don't think that is what detaching is) but I am finding it easier not to be affected by my W. For example, was talkative this morning, but she left without saying goodbye. Normally, that would bother me, but for some reason, not this morning. I feel more like it is her loss for not making that connection. Maybe I feel a sadness for her.
