3 years of S, OW gone - What do I want?

[peacetoday]

yes his room is upstairs by the staircase
I am not asian but I have been told I look hispanic once in a while something else
tell me more about the dream
what was the message?
peace
its good that his mother is on your side..
I dont think it is ever worth it
what I sense from my x is that he is trying to make his new life fit so he can at least feel justified in his actions
my mentor pointed out to me that xh really did not get his freedom as he planned
he just went from one R to another and lost many things in the switch including his kids, money, wife, family, respect, home, business control, dog, possessions
he got OW 28--maybe she is all that and worth it -but he also lost HIMself
so how can any change be worth all that loss
peace