i think i agree with u guys...

in the past i told him when the messages were more infrequent, at times when he insisted she was out of the picture, when the messages and calls were harassing and involved hurtful lies...

i didnt need to tell him when he was home and heard the phone ringing off the hook.

now, really, what is the point in telling him, he knows she is crazy, he knows she is using my number to text him...

and maybe it would be a new kind of 180 for me not to mention it.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09