Of all of the things that people debate around here (exposure, ML during waywardness, snooping, etc.), this is probably one of only two things ("Don't move out of your own house!" being the other) that EVERYBODY agrees on. DON'T CONFRONT THE OTHER PERSON.
No, you don't just ignore that it's going on. You focus on all of the other things that people have been posting to you and that MWD talks about in her books. But don't confront the OW.
