i never thought of taking the texts off the phone. interesting.

actually, right now, i say let her keep trying to make contact.

this way, if she keeps it up enough or makes any threats, i can get her on harassment, which i cannot imagine would be too good for her status in our country.

i attempted to discuss bills with h, didnt go very well. lol.

i got the "leave me alone with this".

i wonder if he is this cranky with psycho ow when she questions the status of our divorce everyday lol.

whats funny is i so know how to talk to him, totally dont put the bills on him, i make it OUR concern. and i still got nowhere.

he had a dose of reality- he was unaware until yesterday that our house is published in the newpaper under the foreclosures, even though we are trying to get the bank to accept an offer.

for effect, i packed some boxes while he was home because i dont think he feels the real weight and reality of it. perhaps seeing me packing made it more real.

who knows.


me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09