forward: Very good point. I remember thinking the same, back when I was thinking clearly. Hope it's worth it for H in the end.

peace: That's exactly what I dreamt, painted blue walls with white trim - which I guess is pretty normal for a boy's room. I didn't see Spiderman though... His room was also upstairs, right by the staircase. Are you or is your H Asian? You don't have to answer that if you don't want to disclose too much about yourself on here. It was just part of the dream as well.