Thank you, Sandi and I have to thank puppy as well. I am a thickheaded person and have been blinded by pain. I have been fighting the realization of how serious this is for some time. Some of it is because this is my second marriage, and I feel like a loser going through this again. I was supposed to learn my lesson after the first M and be secure in this one. I didn't want to believe this M could be in enough trouble that it could end. As of right now, she is talking to me like a friend. Yesterday we had some contact during the day while I was at work (I worked a 15 hour shift) and then briefly when I came home before I went to the gym. Each conversation was normal, even a pleasant one here and there. Mostly about the kids. Nothing about the R, or Tuesday night's conversation. She did hit me with this: The motion picture the OM is making is going to star a famous heavy metal singer. The singer's band has asked OM to shoot their videos. He already has done one, now they are going to do another one. W is going to go to the shoot, but it involves an overnight. Obviously I am not happy about this. Given my circumstances, how should I approach this? I want to tell her I don't like it. Of course, in her mind it doesn't matter what I think. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks again for your supporting me. Please continue to support me, including smacking me in the head with a 2X4 when necessary!
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
