Not much new. Working, relaxing, Reading M & R books and some fiction thrown in for balance. Went out last night before my wife came over for mail (hasn't changed her address in 8 months, Hmm.) 4 hrs later she called while I was driving home. Didn't answer. Not DBing, just...no. Note at home to call her, please. No. I'm tired.
Called her this morning. She wanted to change the closing date on our re-fi. *Note: this was a dumb pre-DB thing I did. Her car loan, her rent, and other costs involved in setting up apartment have her well over the edge, financially. Consequences of her decision? Not then. I was pre-DB Mr.Nice Guy: "ReFi? Sure!"
She will be away taking the twice/year drive to visit midwestern daughter. This trip, my wife's sister is taking Gardener's place on the trip. Whatever. Sister's my favorite: she and I are quite close.
My wife asked me if I would go to her apartment everyday (5 days) and check on/feed our cat. Sure, I miss him. Will give me the key. Never offered me the key before. Two of our kids have key and usually do cat duty. Suddenly one "usually forgets" and the other is "kinda busy; I don't want to ask". So,"look for changes," right? Here's another. No idea what it means, but here's another.
Been spending a bit too much time DB reading, lotta time on this forum. Need to update new goals, plan more GAL.
Am finding myself more detached. Not working on it; it's seemingly just happening.
Gotta start working out again, though, I worked out for years. Got about 1/2 a gym downstairs that I haven't done anything with in months (except dust it!). Keep in good shape with hiking and my job, though. But I miss it.
That's it. Venting and rambling.... Thanks.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
