((Orich))......I know Puppy won't give you a big ole bear hug, so I will.
Seriously, I felt so much strength from you when I read your last post. Man, you have sure come a long way in a very short time. I must say you had me very concerned, but you finally answered some questions and sure set my mind to rest. I think you were in so much pain that maybe you were not grasping some of the things that was being asked, and it appeared you were simply ignoring them. But, you hit them this time!
Getting the information processed in one's mind and then having to apply that information.....AND THEN continue to live by it, well.....it's tough. I have not been in your shoes and i won't pretend to know what it's like for you. But, I do understand "pain" as a human being and all of us here share that common ground with each other. In spite of all our differences and in POV, etc., we are like a family who come to each other's help in time of need. We saw you in need and wanted to help, but it took "you" to be willing to do what was necessary. I think I can speak for everyone and say we are very proud of this stand you've taken. It is the right one. You stay in that bed and in that house and you keep those kids! You let her leave and let her get a D if that's what she wants. If she starts talking down and showing disrepect.....turn and walk away without a word. Don't just stay there and ignore her without saying anything....look at her hard, then turn around and purposely walk away from her if it's only into the other room. That makes a strong statement to women. You know why? They can't stand it! (lol) She'll know why.
I should have just said, "great job", but.....well, I wouldn't be Sandi, if I did that, now would I?
It was a very good job! Oh.....and it sure helps when you give us all that information you did today. Thanks for that.
Take care, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
