Talked to MIL again tonight. Apparently her entire family knows, and everyone is P!$$ED! I have never had so much love and support from her family. It is an awesome feeling to know that despite everything and all the love for her, they are in total support of me. I told MIL that I don't encourage or condone any of them letting her in on their feelings, and to be sure to let her know that the exposure is not from me. They are going to discuss with themselves and probably have one specific sister who can be brutally honest, and caring at the same time come to her. I am in total contact with MIL, W is unaware of how much, but I am offering to even take kids to MIL with me to help with projects they have going around their house. Not that I would not help them, but the offering is a 180 for me. Another 180 she got from me today is that I am getting the kids up on Sunday for church, she says she won't go with me(Sunday is our designated family day in this sitch), so I just say, well you are welcome to come if you change your mind, you know where we will be.
