Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[Faith2010]

Gardener - Odd/illogical is the only thing that appears to be consistant with H these days.

I spoke with a SIL yesterday afternoon after a semi-meltdown at the reception. I was humiliated by H. SIL and BIL took me to their house and we talked. Turns out BIL (H's brother) had a PA 16 years ago. They both spoke from experience and were very supportive. Both told me they support me and our S and do not support H. Evidently the family realizes something is wrong with us but believe we are just fighting and H is upset due to brother's death. Another BIL who knows our sitch tried to speak with H but H indicated he did not need to talk about anything. H is shutting out his own family. It's very hard to watch.