You do sound pretty positive today - nice to hear!! It's good to have goals & you have them focused on yourself, well done! Do you have any hobbies that have been on the back burner? I find that too lack of convo with my xh sometimes. I think at times, having your guard/walls up has something to do with it. Ya just don't feel you can talk freely about anything & everything like you used to. Don't let it bother you too much.
Do you think in a way you have become your H's hobby? With him helping (or lecturing) you or guiding you with your career?
Maybe check out some volunteer opportunities. Do you like animals? Volunteer at a shelter? Personally, I feel fortunate that I've had my furkids, they are & were such a comfort to me. Kept my sanity or maybe insanity in check!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
