Thanks Puppy - more great advice. Believe me I don't want the same old marriage! I'm ready to do the hard work to get to the great marriage I so want.

I need to go back and look in my journal - I believe one night I actually put together a list of what I want my marriage to look like.

I'll stay in touch. And I cannot say thank you enough - it just doesn't seem adequate. You rock Puppy!