A Wife that has come back? Post Affair feelings ,,

[MrBond]

Get some couples counseling. She doesn't understand how badly it hurts you because she has never gone through it before. She has to be able to see that.

Then you need to learn how to forgive. REALLY forgive. I have a hard time doing that sometimes but it's a point we all need to get to if we want our M to continue.

Have you read "Surviving the Affair?" Maybe she needs to read it too.