A Wife that has come back? Post Affair feelings ,,

[GH31]

Hey Deep,

Yes we do have quite a bit in common. My W has not tried to commit suicide but has said things like "I should probably just go and die" etc.

Pretty much everyone is saying the same thing on here, i.e. that OM has to go ... permanently and for all time. Puppy is right about your W keeping in contact with him so she can reignite the affair again if, heaven forbid it, your marriage fails again. If OM weren't a client of hers she would have found another excuse to stay in contact with him - seriously.

One day, W went into my computer and cell and dug up messages from my friend. Went completely nuts. Accused me of hypocrisy, called her scum, made me open up all my emails and went on a rampage. And she refuses to take it as coincidence that my friend flew up to spend time with me. I may have gone closer than I should have, but I don't think I had anything close to the EA she accused me of. Haha, but the irony was that I was to cut off all contact with her.

This hypocrisy and double standard looks extremely familiar and makes me want to throw.

Look at what I have highlighted in the above quote Deep. You were compelled by your lying, cheating adulterous wife to end all contact with (in her eyes) a potential adultery partner and you did.

Now, does your wife have any trust issues with you. Has your behaviour since you ceased all contact with this woman given your wife any reason not to trust you? Does your wife ever raise any concerns with you that she doesn't trust you?

I haven't read anywhere in your posts that your own wife doesn't trust you.

Funny that, wouldn't you say?