Thanks, Burt. That is the plan. I am trying to find things to do. I always have the gym, but that isn't enough. Most of my friends are either "our" friends, or her family (it is very large) One of my best friends is her sister's husband. I need to do things that are completely outside of her/us. I am trying to connect with people I work with, or old friends I haven't seen in a while. Maybe I will just go out alone once in a while. She doesn't have to know I am not meeting anybody, right?
Hi Orich,
I have almost the same problem and am doing the same things. I have even gone out a few times by myself. The funniest thing is when I go out to a bar by myself and tell her exactly what I am doing - where I am going and that it is by myself. She freaked out because she didn't believe me - in her mind I must be going somewhere else, or at a minimum meeting someone there and lying about it.
Waywards tend to project their poor behavior onto their spouse. SCRIPT.
