mindblank,

Thank you!

The really funny thing is when I do the "you decide" or "what do you want to do" he actually gets frustrated sometimes that he has to make decisions. I just smile serenely.

I wouldn't do anything that feels fake. You can offer two different choices and have him decide. As in, I was thinking of having either tacos or chinese food for dinner - which would you prefer?

Ok. I really have to get off and load up some wood to contribute to the bonfire. I will check back later if I don't get in too late.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.