I see you had an issue w/controlling just like me. It's odd now, though, trying not to be. I feel like I'm being fake. Asking him all the time his opinion, what he would like to eat, what he would like to do, etc... There has to be a happy medium!
Love the bonfire! My D18 has them all the time, and now S12 is pulling up the rear with his buddies, as well. Good clean fun.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.