Originally Posted By: volleydog
I have a feeling things are going to get BAD...We are trying to work the D out but having the L's work on the money part...Well my L wanted a copy of her partnership agreement(she's a partner in a practice) she has a significant retirement benefit attached to it...I don't know if I'm entitled or even want any but my L wants to look at it...emailed her this morning that I needed that and some other documents...she asked why I needed the partnership agreement, told her my L wanted to see it...she wasn't happy.


- you are entitled to it.
If the situation was reversed and you were in her shoes, she would be pursuing half or more of whatever you had.

There are consequences for WAS's, nobody gets to walk away from a marriage without any consequences - you don't have to make it easy for her and get the idea out of your head that because you're a man you shouldn't be asking for the proper division & allocation of marital assets.

Alot of women will play that card with their men,
because if a man pursues alimony or their fair share, a man really isn't a man then.

Men & women are equal - let's start remembering this & acting like it. You didn't ask for a divorce and you have consequences that you're dealing with: loss of wife, loss of family, etc. Your wife has consequences too, she's a lawyer and of course she's unhappy, she knows better and she knows now that there is a cost for her actions.