Originally Posted By: stuck808
So I went out to the gym after work yesterday and went home to chill. My W wasn't really in a talkative mood, so I didn't push it.

She seemed to be back to her quiet mode again. Up and down and round and round.


both of these past 2 posts mean you are letting HER create your world. Don't. Be in charge of your life. You give her so much power over you. And then you'll say you know you'll be okay no matter what. STick to that statement and make it your new mantra and say it out loud, along with the Serenity prayer, hourly if you need to. there's nothing wrong with that. But do it. You have been stuck for too long making some progress but kind of missing the big overall point. Til recently with the lines about being okay. Adopt that attiude through and through. I'm sort of saying you need to take some of the advice you hand out here...been there, done that.

Good luck,
j


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change