volleydog,

Reality can be a funny thing. She may not have considered all of the details that go along with D. May have assumed that all of the costs would be yours.

Just keep it strictly business. It will get hard, but you do not need to react to her "not being happy" about every detail. This is your reality even if she hadn't thought all of this through.

Hugs.


Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.