Just when I start to relax, H starts an argument and cuts off communication, and cancels plans for the next day.

I guess when we both get to the point of relaxing in the R, we feel empowered to bring up certain things- having a sense of safety. Problem is, we get stuck going down cheeseless tunnels.
So I know we have to work on communication.

It doesn't feel right that we can be so good together and then things like this show up.


Me late 50's
M 9/06
D 4/11