Just when I start to relax, H starts an argument and cuts off communication, and cancels plans for the next day.
I guess when we both get to the point of relaxing in the R, we feel empowered to bring up certain things- having a sense of safety. Problem is, we get stuck going down cheeseless tunnels. So I know we have to work on communication.
It doesn't feel right that we can be so good together and then things like this show up.