Am I the only woman in this conversation? Cuz I have a different point of view. I see a marriage that was at the brink, but recovered through Retrouvaille, and a couple that continues to volunteer to help save other peoples' marriages, but also attends CORE which is for your own marriage. I see a woman who has asked forgiveness for her past mistakes, who recently had a very serious illness which must have made her take stock of her life, and is who now pregnant with a high risk pregnancy. And the only reason I hear for believing that she is having an affair is that she still has a business relationship with the man.
I think she made up her mind to be married to her husband. And I believe the affair is over. It can happen!
I also think that at this time, Deep needs to be supportive of her decision to have this baby. He should not be suspicious and divisive. There are many things that he could do to de-stabilize his marriage and bring him back to the brink of divorce. If that's what he wants to do, then by all means, accuse her of having an affair, demand a paternity test, and demand that she drop her important business client. But if he wants to stay married, then he should explain to her that he is suffering with trust issues, and ask her to re-assure him that she is not in love with any other man. And they should either go to a MC or back to Retrouvaille and work on strengthening the trust and forgiveness supports of their marriage.
