desperate...

[Ready2Change]

Two people make a relationship. You are responsible for your half. Take full control of your thoughts, words and actions. Continuously work on becoming the best YOU that you can. Check out the books I have listed on the first post of my thread. the NUTS book would be good for you to read after DR.....

So you were controlling? If you love something, set it free....

I learned that you can not put your happiness into someone elses hands. Do things that make you happy.

Listening is the best tool for learning. Listen to what W says and then VALIDATE. She wants to be understood. Show that you understand how she feels.

I wish you well. Everything will be OK. Keep working on you. Focus on the kids.

Patience, kindness and forgiveness have been wonderful tools for me. I continually forgive MsR2C for what I PERCEIVE she has done/ does to me.