John - I think this is where our feelings are a bit different. I know my X misses me also and she still says "honey" to me on the phone and still has a picture of us together as her Windows Live Messenger display picture. However, I have no desire to be in a one on one lunch or dinner senario with her. She just kind of gives me the creeps when she gazes at me. But if re-living some old times works for you and you are comfortable, then I say do it.
How do you think NGF would feel about it?
BTW... I am still a kid. The kids have multi shot rubber band gun pistols with rotating targets. I still play with those since the X took all the real pistols in the divorce.
