Yes, you are in pain. No, H should not be doing this, but please click on the link Trapt sent & read through the thread entitled rummaging through the archives. WHAT YOUR H IS DOING IS NOT ABOUT YOU. He is not trying to hurt you. You must detach from the situation & quit taking what he does personally. I know this is hard. OW is a fantasy right now. H is in pain & he doesn't know why. He is running around trying to create a new fantasy life to escape his old one. He is trying ANYTHING to be happy. The reality is something is wrong INSIDE of him. He has to fix it.
Please tell us...is there anything unusual about H's childhood/background?
Me 36, Him 33 M 11yrs, T 15yrs S 8, D 7 ILYBINILWY - 1/09 H moves out 10/09 D to be final SOON I HOPE!
