I can't really help with her Client, but what I really need to do is firmly state these requests and then SHUT UP and walk away. Her generalized, one-sided, non-factual attacks really piss me off. I want to stay in the discussion until we reach a calm reasonable, mutually agreeable conclusion, but it's just not possible. I just end up getting dragged into the mud.
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She is in a constant state of fed up with you and your selfish ways (her pov) and you won't put any points on the board for a while.
I can absolutely see that she feels this way. The issue is that all of the things that she is currently referring to as examples of me being selfish, are times where I (the new me) am finally standing up for myself and looking out for (and expressing) my own needs.
Last edited by Thinker; 07/08/0908:10 PM.
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.