Excellent post sandi.

This is exactly what she told me guy, you better listen. My sitch is very similar to yours including the way my W was acting towards me.

I totally understand what she means by the "voice" of respect. I came off as whiny before to her, but then I told her just last week that while she may not love me, she will respect me. I didn't say it in anger, just a position of power. I loved it and it made her shut her yap.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER