wow.....it's like I'm brand new to this....COMPLETELY ignored the fact there would be a pull back today. Boy did he smack me with it too..... He overdraws the account....then blames me for it. Great. Then he sends me a text, AFTER I thank him for taking care of the over drawn account, that he was looking at pictures of families on the 4th of July....and he should have been happy, but it just made him sad because he realizes he should want that, a happy family, but doesn't. And he's been unhappy for so long....and now he just needs to figure out how to be happy again. Good lord.
AlmostDoneButHavingABadDay.....
This is SO normal through this phase of his life....
I know you have been here a while, but you are also just coming into understanding WHAT he is going through...
Sometimes, the things that we think are the worst things ever, are the best things for US...
You can chose to be negative, or positive about them...
Yes you had words with him after a great night.( NEG )
But on the flip side....you can see the signs of him processing the things he needs to process through this...
Yes, he pulled back, and guess what, the next time something like this happens?
He will again...
Time to show a different AlmostDone ?
You can do this....These days suck, but that is why you have us here for you....
The next time ? You will be ready, and actually chuckle a little when it happens cause you knew it would....
