Cautiously Optimistic

[fisherman]

Def NOT from MI....

Being from MI is better than being the "NORM!" of the Blue Oyster Bar Sucka!!!

[Jimbo]

Def NOT from MI....

Being from MI is better than being the "NORM!" of the Blue Oyster Bar Sucka!!!

I wish Mach could help me understand why on earth you chose to be both....

[fisherman]

original...........

[Mach1]

So......

What do YOU want to do ?

Sounds to me like you want to go to the park....

So do it......Now he knows what you are planning....

It shouldn't be too much of a surprise when you go then...

[Done in VA]

Yes - I will demand to go to the park. I will tell him that I have thought about it, and despite the long lines, heat & his whining, I think we will have a GREAT time TOGETHER (ah ha ha ha ha ha - evil laugh).

[dl443322]

Boys, she can hang.

Good for you Hope for seeing those changes and making them.

Just continue moving forward. Let h find his own way through his journey. You will be too busy navigating yours.

Hope, you couldnt ask for a better bunch of people then these in your corner.

Thanks for the pics, Trapt - looks like you had a great time. Good for you, you deserve it.

[sofaraway]

Yes - I will demand to go to the park. I will tell him that I have thought about it, and despite the long lines, heat & his whining, I think we will have a GREAT time TOGETHER (ah ha ha ha ha ha - evil laugh).

First things first, Trapt they will have the entire MJ funeral show on blue ray very soon... hang in there princess.....

HVA, I hate the word demand. Seems to me maybe the light hearted HVA would simply say that she really has had her sights set on the amusement park so she would like to stick with that plan. But stand by your choice.. I like that.

Ian

[Done in VA]

Hey Ian - I was only being sarcastic...I will figure out a tactful way to let him know what I would like to do

[sofaraway]

Hey Ian - I was only being sarcastic...I will figure out a tactful way to let him know what I would like to do

I knew that, just makin sure you remember it when the time comes......

[Done in VA]

Mach,

I'm asking you this because we have discussed thinking it is relevant to our sitches. When H switched from country to rap, started going to shooting range & fishing (had never done these things throughout our R, but had during childhood), do you think it could be indicative to the time period in which he needs to "fix" now?

I asked him tonight (making reference to our son) at what age he shot bb guns the most & did the most fishing. He said around 10. I also asked him who his mom was married to at the time (started to question my questions), but I believe it was to the alcoholic/abusive 2nd marriage. They used to have to sneak out the back door of the house when he came home drunk. His kids were older & H's mom once came home & found H had been tied to a tree for HOURS by the older kids. Just a couple of weird snippets from reminiscing that stuck out to me over the years.