Thats good. Im glad to hear that you think you are doing better. Thats the first part of actually doing better!

Do you hear from her at all? One thing I did was to wait a day or so before responding to H's emails, you know, as if I had something better to do than wait to hear from him. Still, dont you be the one to initiate contact.

As things go on for a little bit longer, youll actually be amazed by how quickly it happens, the less contact you have with her, the better you will feel. Try to practice thought stopping, if you start to think of her, quickly switch your mind to something else, somepeople actually say the word "Stop" or pinch themselves. The biggest thing I did for myself was to stop checking H's Facebook and Myspace.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...