Exactly right, my wife broke up with me when I was in college and she had recently graduated. So, I did all of the pleading with her back then, 20 years ago, to come back to me, nothing of course worked, she started dating another guy, and then I finally moved on. Well, by homecoming I had this hot girlfriend and I ran into her brother at a restaurant with her. I was called the next day. And in 2 more years we were married.

Now I am not advocating going and getting a new girlfriend, but I agree with you, she does not have to know that you are alone.

Burt