Want to add 2 things: 1 - that I looked like @ss when I saw H, because I had just finished working out. Wasn't expecting him to show up at MIL's as it was during work hours. Hate when that happens. 2 - that there's very little chance of H going back to ow now that he's broken up with her and moved out. MIL has emphasized this to me twice, saying that's how H is. When I said that means he could be the same with me, she said "It's different with you". Hopefully a case of mother knows best.
